17 REASONS WHY IT HURTS

it hurts to see you've forgotten the way we were before,
it hurts to still love you.. not knowing why or what for
it hurts to finally accept the truth that we can never be, it hurts 2 remember the times u used to hug & spend time w/me it hurts to think of myself always being left alone,
it hurts to see that you have no msg for me on my cellphone
it hurts having you in my mind 24/7, 4 it hurts to know that things are different now & then
it hurts to always long for u and dream about your face, it hurts to remenisce of your sweet and gentle ways
it hurts missing you each day, each night, it hurts to know we've come to an end, ive lost the fight
it hurts to think of all these hurts i've just said for i bring these hurts even when im off toe bed
i deal with the hurts every minute of everyday,
i make my friends believe it's nothing and i'm okay but deep inside i keep the greatest of all the pains and despair,
its not letting you know this & going on with life pretending i don't care.

Facts to make you smile...

just got this sa email.
just wanna share it with you GTs

Did you know that when you envy someone, it's because you really like that person?
Did you know that those who appear to be very strong in heart, are real weak and most susceptible?
Did you know that those who spend their time protecting others are the ones that really need some one to protect them?
Did you know that the three most difficult things to say are :
I love you, Sorry and help me
The people who say these are actually in need of them or really feel them, and are the ones you really need to treasure, because they have said them.
Did you know that people who occupy themselves by keeping others company or helping others are the ones that actually need your company and help?
Did you know that those who dress in red are more confident in themselves?
Did you know that those who dress in yellow are those that enjoy their beauty?
Did you know that those who dress in black, are those who want to be unnoticed and need your help and understanding? (di kaya mataba lang sila..) hehe
Did you know that when you help someone, the help is returned in two folds?
Did you know that those who need more of you are those that don't mention it to you?
Did you know that it's easier to say what you feel in writing than saying it to someone in the face?
But did you know that it has more value when you say it to their face?
Did you know that what is most difficult for you to say or do is much more valuable than anything that is valuable that you can buy with money?
Did you know that if you ask for something in faith, your wishes are granted?
Did you know that you can make your dreams come true, like falling in love, becoming rich, staying healthy, if you ask for it by faith, and if you really knew, you'd be surprised by what you could do.
But don't believe everything I tell you, until you try it for yourself , if you know someone that is in need of something that I mentioned, and you know that you can help, you'll see that it will be returned in two-fold .

sad story...

Mark and Tina are sitting in the park doing nothing, but just gazing into the sky, while all their friends are having fun with their respective partners.
Tina: (sighs) I'm sooo bored. Just wish I have a boyfriend right now to spend some time with!
Mark: Well... I guess we're the only leftovers in the group. We're the only persons who don't have a date right now. (both sigh and sit in silence for a while)
Tina: I think I have a good idea! Lets play a game!
Mark: Oh?... What game?
Tina: It's quite simple! You be my boyfriend for 100 days and I'll be your girlfriend for 100 days! (She grins at Mark) What do you think?
Mark: (Laughs) gee... ok! Anyway I don't have any plans for the next few months... laughs again)
Tina: (wrinkles her nose at Mark and playfully punches his arm) You sound like you're not looking forward to it at all! C'mon, cheer up! Today will be our first day and our first date. Now, where should we go? (smiles sweetly at Mark)
Mark: hmm... what about a movie? I heard there's a really great one in the theater right now.
Tina: Cool! Seems like I don't have any better ideas than that. Let's go! (They both went to watch their movie and sent each other home)
Day 2: Mark and Tina went to a concert together, and Mark bought Tina a keychain with a star.
Day 3: they went shopping together for a friend's birthday present. Shared an ice-cream together and hugged each other for the first time.
Day 7: Mark drove Tina up a mountain and they watched the sunset together. When night came and the moon glowed, they said sat on the grass gazing at the stars together. A meteor passed by. Tina mumbles something. Day 25: They spend time at a themepark and rode the rollercoasters, and ate hotdogs and cotton candy. Mark and Tina went into the park's haunted house and Tina grabbed someone else's hand instead of Mark's hand by mistake. They laughed about it together for a while.
Day 67: They drove pass a circus and decided to watch the show. The midget there asked Tina to play a part as his assistant in the magic show. They then went around to see the other entertainments around after the show. Tina went to a fortune teller, to which the fortune teller just said "Treasure every moment from now on" and a tear rolled down the fortune teller's cheek.
Day 84: Tina suggested that they go to the beach. The beach wasn't so crowded that day. They have their first kiss with each other just as the sun sets.
Day 99: They decided to just have a simple day together, and have a walk around the city. They both sit down on a bench 1:23 pm
Tina: I'm thirsty. Let's rest for a while first.
Mark: (stands up and smiles at her) Wait here while I go buy some drinks. What will you have?
Tina: (Looks up at him with a sweet smile on her face) Uhmm... Apple juice will be fine!
1:43 pm
Tina waits for about 20 minutes and still Mark has not returned. Then someone rushes up to her. Stranger: Miss, weren't you with a guy just a moment ago? (He then describes Mark's features.) Tina: (carefully answers with rising dread) yes... why?
Stranger: Just now down there on the street a drunk driver crashed into a guy! I think it's your friend!
Her heart hammering in her chest, Tina ran over to the spot with the stranger and sees Mark lying on the road with blood all over his face and her apple juice still in his hands. The ambulance arrived and she went to the hospital with Mark. Tina sat
> outside the emergency room for five and a half hours as doctors fought to save Mark's life. Finally, a doctor came out with a sigh. He walks over to Tina.
11:51 pm
Doctor: I'm sorry, but we did the best we could. He's still breathing... but God would take him away from us very soon. ...and we found this letter inside his pocket. With a grim face, the doctor sadly hands over the letter to Tina and walks away. She goes into the room to see Mark. He looks weak ...but peaceful. Tina sits on his bedside and reads he letter. She bursts into tears. Here is what the letter said: Tina, our 100 days is almost over. I had fun with you during all these days. Although you may be greedy sometimes and quite unthoughtful, all these nevertheless brought happiness into my life. I have realized too late that you're a really cute and kind girl and I blame myself for never having taken the time to realize it earlier. I have nothing much to ask for, but I just wish that we can somehow extend the day. I want to be your boyfriend forever, Tina... and I wish that you can be beside me for all time. ...Tina, I love you. -Mark
11:58
Tina: (sobbing) Mark? Do you know what was the wish that I made on the night the meteor passed by..? I asked God to let us last forever! We were supposed to last 100 days Mark! You can't leave me! ...I LOVE YOU! Can you come back to me now? 100 days can't be enough! I love you Mark! I LOVE YOU!!!
Tina lay sobbing by Mark's bedside, clutching his still hand ...and as the clock struck twelve, Mark's heart stopped beating. 100 days have passed."Love is a commitment of the heart that will stand the test of wavering emotions, intellectual rationalizing, circumstantial allure, hormonal infatuation, and even the wounds of your lover. Anything less is not true…
> love."

What you think???

These are from friendster , and i agree sa lahat ng ito , well not really all of it but most of it , i do agree .

The ten types of relationship that won't work:
1. You care about your partner more than he does about you.
2. Your partner cares more about you than you do about him.
3. You are in love with your partner's potential.
4. You are on a rescue mission.
5. You look up to your partner as a role model.
6. You are infatuated with your partner for external reasons.
7. You have partial compatibility.
8. You choose a partner in order to be rebellious.
9. You choose a partner as a reaction to your previous partner.
10. Your partner is unavailable.

The six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship:
1. We don't ask enough questions.
2. We ignore warning signs of potential problems.
3. We make premature compromises.
4. We give in to Lust Blindness.
5. We give in to material seduction.
6. We put Commitment Before Compatibility.

Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship:
1. Pressure(age, family, friends, etc.)
2. Loneliness and desperation
3. Sexual hunger
4. Distraction from your own life
5. To avoid growing up
6. Guilt
7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.

The Lust into Love Formula:
1. First, you feel powerful sexual chemistry with someone or, in raw terms, lust.
2. Next, you act on those urges and have sex with that person.
3. Then you experience some guilt or discomfort having been so sexually intimate with someone you aren't that emotionally connected with.
4. Finally you create a relationship with that person to legitimize your lust.

Five Realities about Love:
1. Love is not enough to make a relationship work - it needs compatibility and it needs commitment.
2. It just takes a moment to experience infatuation, but true love takes time.
3. It is possible to experience true love with more than one person there are many potential partners you could be happy with.
4. The right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of them.
5. Good sex has nothing to do with true love, but making love does.

Five Deadly Myths about Love:
1. True love conquers all.
2. When it's really true love, you will know it the moment you meet the other person.
3. There is only one true love in the world who is right for you.
4. The perfect partner will fulfill you completely in every way.
5. when you experience powerful sexual chemistry with someone, it must be love.

Fatal flaws to watch out for in a partner:
1. Addiction
2. Anger
3. Victim consciousness
4. Control freak
5. Sexual Dysfunction
6. Hasn't grown up
7. Emotionally unavailable
8. Hasn't recovered from past relationships
9. Emotional damage from childhood

Here are seven compatibility time bombs that can destroy a relationship:
1. Significant age difference
2. Different religious background
3. Different social, ethnic, or educational background
4. Toxic in-laws5. Toxic ex-spouse
6. Toxic Stepchildren
7. Long-distance relationships

Six qualities to look for in a mate:
1. Commitment to personal growth
2. Emotional openness
3. Integrity
4. Maturity and responsibility
5. High self-esteem
6. Positive attitude towards life

how about u do u agree ?

40 days 40 nights

Well last night I was watching 40 days and 40 nights... I saw 3
elements in the movie
1) abstinence
2) sex/intimacy
3) chemistry
it got me thinking..... Again damnit!!!!

what stuck in my head is the third one... Chemistry.. im sure we
have been in relationships or d